There are different levels of awakening. Rarely does someone simply “snap out of” the dream with no residual pieces of ego left behind. Lately my awareness has come to focus on a piece that many hold on to, even without knowing it. The piece of ego that says, “you should not be that way” or “you should not act that way”. You can see this everywhere. It’s part of what creates the human drama. True freedom cannot come until you allow others the freedom to be who they are. Allow others the space. Accept them for who they are. If you are not allowing them to be who they are then there is resistance to what is. Full awakening includes a release of that resistance. It is allowing everything (and everyone) to be as it is. This isn’t to say that you will always agree with it, or even like it, but you can accept it. Allow it. This is true for ourselves as well. For example, maybe you meditate and get frustrated that your mind will not slow down. What would happen if you just allowed yourself to be as you are, busy mind and all? What would happen if you accepted yourself as you are instead of trying to ‘better’ yourself, change yourself or resist yourself? Instead, allow yourself to just be as you are. Make it your practice. Allow yourself and others to be as you and they are. It will not only assist in allowing reality to be as it is but it brings you to a place of presence. A place of true freedom.
Enjoy the beauty.
I love snow days. My kids do too (of course). We were blessed with one just the other day. As with all of our snow days, it was a wonderful opportunity for us to just stop. A great time to ‘drop out of life’ for a day. We relaxed, played games and, of course, basked in the beauty of a foot of newly fallen snow. Even the need to shovel the driveway was a gift, the wind in my face, snowflakes wetting my cheeks and the birds chirping overhead. There was nowhere to go and no timetable to keep.
I did, despite the gift of a day off work and school, check my e-mail now then and, yes, I jumped on Facebook. In that, this past snow day brought another aspect to my awareness, one I hadn’t spent much time with. It caused me to take a step back and look at how life on this planet and within our society works. To look at how conditioned we’ve become within the societal boundaries. There were so many people concerned about missing work, getting kids to school (those that didn’t get the day off) and a myriad of other issues related to the weather. So many things that people were set on doing but couldn’t or things that would now be more difficult because mother nature had the “nerve” to bring on a snowstorm and interrupt their plans. In one way, it’s our society that keeps us in the chains of busy-ness. It has conditioned us to believe we must be busy. We must produce. We must get out there and make money. We must get our kids to school so they can learn. In another way, it’s ourselves that bind us in these chains, because we believe it and we ourselves keep so busy that we don’t know how to stop. We feel confined because of all of this perceived societal responsibility or perhaps our own personal fear of just stopping and being in silence (but that’s a whole other story in itself). Many people are even penalized if they miss a day of work, either by loss of pay or the threat of a “black mark” in their employee file. Just another link the chain.
During this past snow day it never occurred to me to be upset with it. It snowed. My kids were home from school, which meant I was too. Pretty simple. Work could wait (even though I’m one of the ones to get a “black mark” with this particular job). School to could wait. I was going to enjoy it. I was going to take the day to slow down and jump out of life for a while and it was wonderful. There was no conflict within me. I went with the flow and enjoyed every moment.
This is something that comes with awakening. Call it trust. Call it “going with the flow”. Call it what you will. It is the realization that this moment is all we have. Wherever we are is where we need to be. You can struggle with it, fight against it and be angry with it or you can accept what is and enjoy it. If there is a snow day and you can’t do the things you have planned then trust that. Get your notions and your expectations out of the way and enjoy.
The next time there is a snow day, it is a gift. Relax and enjoy. Trust that the universe is doing this for you, not to you, and you will not be disappointed.
If you see things only through the filter of your mind you aren’t seeing clearly. You are seeing an altered reality. A reality you’ve only imagined.
One of my favorite lines from Jed McKenna’s Spiritual Enlightenment Trilogy is “think for yourself or not at all”. It amazes me how many people don’t think for themselves. It amazes me, even more, that most people don’t even think of thinking for themselves. I don’t usually talk about my day-to-day life or tell stories such as this but today was too beautiful of an example to let pass by without mentioning. The premise of this story? “think for yourself or not at all” or equally accurate, if it’s not self-verifiable then it’s just a belief…and no belief is true.
I work for an employer that decided to make the flu shot mandatory for employment this year. I err on the side of ‘no thanks’ when it comes to getting shot up with a curious mixture of ingredients so I sought and received an exemption. In a meeting today the subject came up because so many physicians have not yet gotten the shot. To make things interesting I mentioned how it just doesn’t seem very nice to make people shoot a toxic substance into their bodies in the name of “health”. Vaccines should remain a choice, not a mandatory ultimatum. I proceeded to be ransacked. The 3 managers in the room immediately dove into the pre-scripted talking points released months before by Corporate Communications, the propaganda machine of the organization (very similar to the book 1984 I might add). I let them go on about how I was going to kill our sickest patients by eating in the cafeteria or by using the restroom. I listened to claims of clinical studies (of which no one in the room had ever looked up or even knew the names of). I looked at open mouths and surprised faces that said, “how could you dare not follow us and get the shot?”. We had a little back and forth on the subject. I asked one of the ladies how she would explain that most of the whooping-cough cases last year in California occurred in the vaccinated child population. She stammered and said that it was because most of the kids were vaccinated……dramatic pause….. I waited for her to realize what she just said. She didn’t. She had no clue. I was speechless. I ended the conversation by asking one of the manager-nurses in the room if she had verified any of this “evidence” for vaccination herself or if she was just taking other people’s word for it. The answer she gave me was something like, “aaaahhhhhh???” with a quick change of subject.
Exactly. If you have not verified it (experienced it, seen it, smelled it…) for yourself it’s just a belief. Think for yourself or not at all. SIMPLE. It didn’t occur to any of the managers in this room today to think for themselves. They were being good little employees and were simply following directions from the “powers that be”. None of them realized that there is NO other ‘power’ than yourself.
Bottom line, whether it’s a job, a flu shot, your religion, your belief in God, your thoughts about the tree in your backyard – everything – think for yourself or not at all. Be your own authority. If you cannot self-verify it then it’s a belief. It’s a lie you are telling yourself. Question it. Question everything until you know.
Disclaimer – I really have no opinion on the flu shot one way or another. To each his/her own. There is “scientific evidence” pointing to both sides of the spectrum. I’m drawn to refrain from such activities and really have no opinion on what others choose to do or not do so if you feel strongly about this subject, here is not the place to debate it. The above was simply an example of people following the herd without questioning. The flu shot just happened to be the subject.
Waking up is getting off the stage. It’s like sitting in the audience knowing you are just watching a play but the actors in the play still believe it is real. Day to day life? 99% are still in the play.
The path to enlightenment is right here, right where you are. No need to go anywhere. No need to figure out where to go next. Let go and you will be led. That is grace.
When you are awake, you see the truth is everywhere, in everything. Nothing was ever kept from you. Nothing was ever hidden. It’s that simple.
It’s in the pine cone you just walked past.
It’s your dog or your cat taking an afternoon nap.
It’s apple pie that just came out of the oven.
It’s there during family game night.
It’s there when you meditate (and even when you don’t).
It’s everywhere. All of the time. You just need to stop and look. It’s that simple.